A key to getting a girl in bed is to start acting like it’s already happened. This is called “sexual rapport,” and this quick seduction guide article is going to look at it in detail. This is one of the nonverbal communication techniques that’s going to make it happen for you.
What’s the difference between the moment you’re getting her into bed and the first time you meet? When you’re about to get into bed, you know that you like each other. There’s no confusion in terms of what’s happening here. You’ve both effectively accepted the terms of your relationship together. To build sexual rapport, you want to start hinting through body language from the beginning that you’re already at this point.
Touching To Build Sexual Rapport
To start acting like you’ve already had sex, you’ll want to be comfortable touching her. The point of touching is to gradually escalate things until it becomes more serious. For example, at first you’re giving her a playful push or putting your hand on her arm; at a key point in the encounter, you put your arm around her and move in for the kiss.
If you put your arm around her at the beginning, that’s the end of it. If you say, “hi, nice to meet you,” and then lunge at her for a kiss, it’s over. The idea is that you start small with playful, friendly touching like you’d do with a female friend or family member. Then it escalates to the point where sex is already comfortable for her.
Touching Her Face
A great way to escalate in the middle area between initial playful touching and more meaning full types is to touch her face. Some things you can do include:
– Putting stray strands of hair behind her ear.
– Touching her face and telling her that she has an eyelash.
– Wiping a lipstick stain off.
These mid-point touches are things you can do on the dance floor at the club. It works much better than trying for a kiss or making your “dancing” into a dry hump! Once she’s comfortable with you touching her face, it’s just a few more steps until you’ve got that kiss.
Finally, it’s important to know when the sexual rapport is happening, and you can do this by reading her body language. She’ll give you the opportunity, and you’ve got to take it to get her to the next step. So, to review, it’s touching that gradually escalates which builds sexual rapport. I hope this seduction guide helps you get the girl!
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